Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Did She Know?

She was 17 ... 17 filled with so much promise. I never had the pleasure of knowing her.

From what I've been told ... she was easy to love. The sound of her footsteps outside the door were identifiable ... unlike any other visitor walking up to the door. She was a good friend, one of the best. And, she was killed in a car accident ... at just 17.

Lisa was a best friend to Cindi's daughter. Cindi is my friend. Lisa spent enough time under their roof to be called family. Enough nights under their roof that she had her own bed.

When she passed away, my friend spent much time ministering to the heart of her family ... her husband, daughter and son. Lisa's passing left a gaping hole ... a great divide. When someone is so entwined in your everyday ... it can't be any other way. You have to find the way to fill that void, that hurt and all over ache. The painful silence of ... no Lisa. You might stop and listen, thinking you hear that special someones foot fall outside your door ... but then ... you remember, that's not possible. And, the pain starts again.

After ministering to her family for some time, Cindi felt God's presence ... He came to her when everything started to slip through her fingers. He came and caught what fell ... her tears. For Cindi, Lisa was like another daughter ... she grieved the loss and the pain her own daughter felt at the passing of a best friend.

And ... then she began to question. Don't we all after someone passes?

This past Sunday, at church, Cindi stood up and challenged others to share their pleasure in someone, to tell them you love them, tell them how much they mean to you ... tell them, tell them ... don't stop telling them ... because tomorrow isn't a guarantee. You have this moment. Take it.

Cindi questioned ... did she let Lisa know how much she was loved? Did Lisa know for sure ... without a doubt how much she meant to Cindi and their entire family?

I can answer that question. I've been in Cindi's home. I have had the absolute pleasure of eating lunch beside their fireplace and playing with their dog, Dory. I have been given the opportunity to call their family ... friends. And ... I know in their family ... I am loved. Just as I am ... good, bad and everything in between. So, I know beyond a doubt ... Lisa left this earth blessed to have been a part of Cindi's family.

Are you making that difference in some one's life? Are you using up every moment to let those you love ... know you love them?

Sometimes, I don't do that. I get so caught up in the world ... I forget about those things. Make today a day filled with purpose ... purposeful love for others and the sharing of that love.
Psalm 139:1-3 "O Lord, You have searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise,You perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down. You are familiar with all my ways."


  1. Thanks for sharing this. I am praying for you today. How is your Tuesday going?

  2. It always comes back to love!

    If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. (1 Corin. 13:1-3)

    We all need the reminder to love someone... Thank you :)

  3. AMEN!! This is so true and I know it well having lost my youngest sister when she was 17 yrs old.

  4. Aine,

    So precious words that too often we take for granted assuming that people will always be with us for just one more day. No life carries those guarantee's and this post is significant for pointing out that fact. Thank you for posting this.

    Love and Hugs ~ Kat

  5. A sweet reminder that the greatest of these is love.

  6. Thank you for sharing this Aine, it's so easy to let "life" just get ahead of us and to let love take the backseat...
    Powerful words with a very powerful message.

  7. Hello Aine. Wonderful message today.
    Thank you for sharing.


  8. Such a sad circumstance that brought forth a beautiful story.

    Thank you, Aine, beautiful!

  9. "Are you making that difference in someone's life?"

    Great message. I'm glad I found you!

  10. What a wonderful message. I'm glad I found your blog. I will be returning.

  11. Thank you for this, Aine. Praying for Lisa's family. I can't wait to meet her when we get to heaven.